The biggest difference I see between consulting and coaching is what I call “what do” vs. “who do.”
With consulting we are dealing with the “what do.” What tact, what strategy, what technique. What is the client going to do to get from point A to point B.
With coaching we are dealing with the “who do.” Here we are dealing with “who do” they need to become to get from point A to point B, or who do they become along the way.
Of course we need to deal with both if we want to get from point A to point B with grace, skill and ease AND if we want to be able to grow from point B to point C. Without the coaching aspect and dealing with the “who do” along the way, our clients often end up back at point A, just a little more dejected.
My experience is the more time we spend defining the problem and the more we look at the “who do” as well as the “what do,” the better and longer lasting results my clients receive.